Why women end up dating bad guys

 Why women end up dating bad guys

Not real: Nice guys are too nice. No one can always be that nice
unless they're a saint. They are busy being
nice instead of being real
and women instinctually don'ttrust that. Bad boys "keep it real". Nice
guys don't want to upset the apple cart. 

Respect: No one respects a doormat. Nice guys don't set boundaries or
make any real demands. A bad boy doesn't let a woman walk all over him
or control him. Women can't respect a man they can control. No respect
= No attraction .
Predictable: Most people lead boring, predictable lives, so they're
attracted to people who are exciting and a bit unpredictable. Bad boys
are always a challenge. Nice guys are never a challenge. Predictable +
No excitement + No challenge = I prefer a bad boy. 

Mother Nature: Women are designed to nurture. However, instead of
doing this with children, they often end up doing it with bad boys.
They think their love will save them. Nice guys rarely need to be
saved. 
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Fixer-Upper: Nice guys don't usually need to be fixed. Bad boys
usually do, so they become a project. Women think if they can "create"
the perfect man, he will never leave them. Also, if they're busy
fixing someone else, they don't have to look at what needs to be fixed
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Sperm wars: Women are designed to procreate with the strongest
possible genes. Bad boys are sending an unconscious message that they
have great genes, so they're not afraid of losing the woman by
misbehaving. Nice guys are sending a message that they don'tthink
their genes are good enough, so they won't misbehave. 

Fear of intimacy: If a woman is afraid of intimacy, she subconsciously
knows she can avoid it with a bad boy, since she can never get close
enough to him to have to go there. A nice guy will eventually want a
commitment, and that's scary. 

Low self-esteem: We don't feel comfortable with people who treat us
better than we treat ourselves. If you don't think much of yourself,
the bad boy is simply reinforcing your negative belief. A nice guy is
treating you in a way you're not familiar with. 

Sex: Women feel a nice guy won't be good in bed. They sometimes like
to be manhandled and think anice guy won't be able to take control and
get the job done. A bad boy comes across as being able to deliver,
even though that may not always be the case. Experts Agree: Cheating

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Hot: Have you ever seen a bad boywho wasn't hot? I'm sure there are a
few, but they wouldn't be able to get away with half the stuff they
did if they didn't look sogood. Meanwhile, when a woman describes
someone as a nice guy, she means, "He's not hot". 

 CHARM: Nice guy
dont sometimes know what to say and always loss for word, while bad
boys can be very charming and always know the exact word woman want to
hear. 
PROTECTION : Historically, men have protection
for women physically and otherwise. Bad guys do give the illusion of
being able to protect women, while nice guys,women aren't sure. Life
is about balance. Most men falls into either bad nor nice guy
category. The ideal man need to fine line between the two categories.

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