7 Fli.rting Mistakes Women Make !!

7 Fli.rting Mistakes Women Make

1. Playing games. Playing mind games or playing "hard to get" are

never good. It may work here and there, but

guys with any level of

self-respect will not keep chasing a girl who plays games. If you are

interested in a guy, show him you are interested or he will move on. 

2. Being disrespectful. Sarcasm and humor can be effective tools when

flirting. Humor keeps the discussion relaxed and sarcasm can show him

your fiesty side. However, you want to be careful not to be

mean-spirited. You don'twant to offend him or embarrass him in front

of other people. Teasing a guy about something he says or does is

different than challenging his manhood. 

3. Being whiny. Asking for help may be a means of flirting for you.Men

often like feeling helpful and being the hero. Additionally, the man

you are interested in may be eager to show you how strong heis.

However, you do not want to be seen as whiny.

Do not ask for help in conjunctionwith complaining about your family ,

friends, job or landlord. Likewise, don't stalk him, constantly

needing his help and advice. 

4. Being too clingy. Guys do not like women who are too clingy or

women who get possessive quickly. There is a difference between

touching a guy's arm while talking, and hanging on his arm while he

tries to talk to his friends. If you just met him, do not get jealous

or clingy if he starts talking to another female. He will think you

are a psycho.

5. Coming on too strong. You want to be mindful of what you say and

how strong you come on to a guy. Coming onto a guy too strong may lead

him to think you are only looking for a hook up. Likewise, making a

lot of sexual jokes may also lead him to think you are only looking to

hook up, as well. This tip, of course, does not apply if you are, in

fact, only looking for a hook-up.

 6. Flirting with a guy

when he's clearly angry- There are good times to flirt and bad times

too.When a guy is visibly angry about something, you want to avoid

flirting. He will likely be too distracted by whatever has caused his

anger to give you an honest chance.If he is sad or distracted about

something,flirting may cheer him up.

 7. Flirting in a

professional setting- This is a big mistake. This may include a

company party or professional banquet. Flirting in there situations

can be taking in a wrong way and may cause people to view you in a

different way in your career , leading to negative consequences within

your job.