you've found the right person, you may have doubts. Having doubts about who you are marrying is not only normal, having doubts is healthy.
Hopefully you already know that you shouldn't marry
someone who drinks too much, spends too much, works too much, brags too much, uses drugs or other illegal behaviour, or is unfaithful, cruel, or dishonest.
If your future spouse is free of those destructive
behaviors and you are still having doubts about getting. married, read through these statements.
You will see if your doubts are reasonable and worth paying attention to or if you are having cold feet about getting married without having any rational reasons.
Happiness and Emotional Support
Although expecting a spouse to make you feel happy all the time is unreasonable, being with the right person can bring happiness and a sense of personal strength to your life.
You will know you are marrying the right person when you feel support and encouragement about your own growth both emotionally and intellectually. The right person will want you to be emotionally healthy and able to stand on your own two feet.
When you are with the right person you will feel good about yourself, safe, and fulfilled.
Affection, Love, and S.ex
It is important that the person you marry is someone
who is understanding and agreeable to your wants and needs when it comes to se.x and affection.
You will know you are marrying the right person if your future spouse says "I love you" not only in words
spoken, but by loving actions. We define loving actions as doing things such as noticing when you are tired, remembering your birthday, wanting to spend time with you, listening to you, showing you respect, calling if you are running late, showing you affect!on, being patient with you if you don't understand something, kiss!ing you hello and goodbye, and hugging you for. no special reason.
You will know you are marrying the right person if you
are se.xually compatible with one another.
If the two of you view se.xual intimacy differently or have different lib!dos, your marriage relationship will suffer.
The right person is someone who you like and who is
your friend. The right person will enjoy spending time
with you.Your love and your marriage will slowly fade
if the two of you are not friends.
The right person is kind, considerate, and polite.
Little things in life such as saying 'thank you' and holding a door open may seem old fashioned, but they do reflect the amount of caring and kindness in a person.
Communication, Goals, and Values
You and the right person will have similar goals and
values in life .Having different likes and different opinions is okay as long as the two of you agree to disagree.
Although you may not always agree with one another, conversations. with the right person will be interesting and not boring.
The right person will communicate thoughts and
feelings with you and will not keep hurts and concerns bottled up inside.
Feelings
Understanding that the only constant in life is change, the right person is willing to discuss marriage issues, questions, and topics with you both before and after you get married.
The right person will encourage you to make decisions to live a healthy lifestyle by eating healthier foods and getting exercise. The right person will want to work. with you to balance your work and personal lives.
Feeling as if you are the only one picking things up
around the house or taking care of the kids can get
old.
The right person is willing to share in the responsibilities of your home and future children.
Finding the right person doesn't mean that the two of
you won't have difficulties or differences to deal with.
However, with the right person you will know that the
two of you will be able to work through the issues that
could hurt your relationship.
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