When should SINGLE'S START HAVING S.EX?

When should SINGLE'S START HAVING S.EX?

Obviously there's a myriad of answers to this question with many

religious and ethical interpretations. In the past

the answer was

clean and simple - not until you're married. This was particularly

important for our message to youth, as we know many teens are not ready

for the responsibility that parenthood demands.

But today many people are waiting much longer to get married, often

into their late twenties and early thirties. Expecting the majority of

the their best interest. Can you imagine how eager people would

become to get married so they could experience sex - only to find that

they really aren't that compatible and then wind up as another divorce

statistic?

Yes, sex is special , and should not be reduced to a simple physical

act for pleasure only. It is by far the most personal, sacred thing we

can share with another person. And we should choose carefully who we

decide to be sexual with. But this convenient answer that we should

wait until we're married is outdated and ignored by most , so we might

as well address it from the side of reality.

Most divorcees are more interested in taking their time, choosing

wisely, and really getting to know someone before they make the

marriage leap again. Part of their getting to know someone includes

sharing intimacy with each other. After all, these adults are not

worried as much about pregnancy and they have already experienced an

active se.x life in the past.

The same rules of thumb should be able to be applied to all people.Let

me ask you, is it not hypocrisy for the older generations who have se.x

out of wedlock to preach to the younger generations that this is wrong?

And even if they do preach this philosophy, usually their message falls

upon deaf ears.

The amazing fact is that many of the older folks, who should know

better, make the same mistakes as the younger people when it comes to

se.x. You would think their experience and level of maturity would

guide them better,but unfortunately many in their 30's, 40's, and 50's

share s.ex with a partner way too early in the relationship, which has

many ramifications.

Every building that is designed fora long life has a foundation. The

strength of that foundation is critical for the longevity of the

building. The more time and careful preparation that goes into

building the foundation of one's relationship before they have s.ex the

better. Once you have se.x, the relationship takes on a new shape, you

add a significant new dimension. You are without question no longer

just friends.

If you don't share a sex/ual relationship with someone, and you get to

know them and find that you are really not interested in a long-term

relationship, getting out is much more simple and much less

uncomfortable. No-one feels used or under obligation, and people are

generally less hurt if they haven't shared that level of intimacy

together. What do you think about there issue? Kindly post your

comment below.